Stages of grooming
- Targeting: they are befriended through social media or their peer group, and their trust is gained.
- Experience: they are offered new experiences in the form of gifts, money, drugs, alcohol as a way to control them.
- Hooked: they become involved in criminal activities, taking on increasing responsibility within the group. They may initially feel as it is a choice.
- Trapped: they may find they are trapped, unable to leave. They may be controlled through threats against them or their family or attacked to ensure they are too afraid to tell anyone.

Know the signs of child exploitation
There are some things you can look out for if you’re worried your child may have joined a gang and/or is a victim of criminal exploitation. These include:
- Staying out at night or going missing for days
- Being isolated and withdrawn
- Having new things and money they can’t explain
- Owning weapons, balaclavas, or digital scales
- Frequent unexplained phone calls
- Seeming edgy or anxious after calls, texts or messages
- Having multiple phones
- Being in a new friendship circle including older people
- Not going to school/college or a change in performance
- Being in trouble or found in possession of drugs
If your child is involved in a gang and this has impacted your family, please reach out. There are services available to support you and your family through this challenging time.

Resources
Missing People: provide SafeCall a free, confidential and anonymous helpline and support service for young people and family members that are affected by missing, county lines and criminal exploitation.
- Call or text: 116000
- Email: 116000@missingpeople.org.uk
The Mix: is a support service for young people offering advice on a variety of topics from break-ups, county lines to mental health.
- Offer free online counselling for 11-24 year olds
- You can contact their crisis messenger 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by texting THEMIX to 85258
Service Six: offer mental health and wellbeing support for young people and their families. This includes therapy, family sessions and group support. To get help, fill out the self-referral form on their website.
The Children’s Society : give information and advice about county lines and criminal exploitation. They share advice for young people and can direct you to support services.
Guiding Young Minds: provide specialist support for young people, helping them to overcome challenges in their lives. They also offer guidance for parents to help them better support their children.